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By Dave Kelly

Saturday, February 21, 2026

STERLING LOGIC ENGINE: "WITHOUT YOU" LYRICS ANALYSIS

 

STERLING LOGIC ENGINE: "WITHOUT YOU" LYRICS ANALYSIS


"WITHOUT YOU" LYRICS

No, I can't forget this evening
Or your face as you were leaving
But I guess that's just the way the story goes
You always smile but in your eyes your sorrow shows
Yes, it shows
No, I can't forget tomorrow
When I think of all my sorrows
When I had you there but then I let you go
And now it's only fair that I should let you know
What you should know
I can't live, if living is without you
I can't live, I can't give any more
Can't live, if living is without you
I can't give, I can't give any more
Well, I can't forget this evening
Or your face as you were leaving
But I guess that's just the way the story goes
You always smile but in your eyes your sorrow shows
Yes, it shows
Can't live, if living is without you
I can't live, I can't give anymore
I can't live, if living is without you
I can't live, I can't give anymore
(Living is without you)

Written by Peter Ham and Tom Evans of the British rock group zBadfinger


STERLING LOGIC ENGINE: "WITHOUT YOU" LYRICS ANALYSIS

STEP 0: CONTAMINATION CHECK

Checking for emotional validation of the pathos described. Proceeding with pure propositional audit.

STEP 1: CORRESPONDENCE VERDICT

CORRESPONDENCE FAILURE DETECTED - SEVERE

STEP 2: SEMANTIC DECOMPOSITION

THE FACTS:

  • A relationship ended
  • The other person left
  • The singer is alone now
  • Time is passing (evening, tomorrow)

THE VALUE-CLAIMS:

  • "I can't live, if living is without you" (implicit: the other person's presence is necessary for life/eudaimonia)
  • "I can't give anymore" (implicit: capacity for virtue depends on external circumstances)
  • "Your sorrow shows" (implicit: others' emotional states are Goods/Evils)
  • "It's only fair that I should let you know" (framing pathological dependency as honest communication)

STEP 3: CORRESPONDENCE AUDIT (Prop 20)

Catastrophic Correspondence Failures:

False Judgment 1: "I can't live, if living is without you"

  • What's being treated as Good: The other person's presence
  • What's being treated as necessary for life: An external (another person)
  • Objective Status per Prop 19-20: Other persons are Externals; Externals are Indifferent
  • Per Prop 44-50: Eudaimonia (genuine living/flourishing) depends solely on virtue, not on any external
  • Correspondence Reality: You can live, flourish, and achieve eudaimonia completely without this person
  • VERDICT: This is not love. This is slavery masquerading as love

False Judgment 2: "I can't give anymore"

  • What's being treated as conditional: The capacity for virtue (giving, generosity, action)
  • What it's being conditioned on: The presence of an external (the other person)
  • Objective Status per Prop 37-39: Prohairetic capacity (your ability to exercise virtue) is completely independent of externals
  • Per Prop 11: Your capacity for virtuous action is solely in your control
  • Correspondence Reality: You can give, act virtuously, and exercise your will identically whether this person is present or absent
  • VERDICT: Claiming virtue depends on externals is metaphysical falsehood

False Judgment 3: Treating the relationship as constitutive of self

  • Implicit claim: "Living without you" = not really living
  • What this assumes: The other person is necessary for meaningful existence
  • Objective Status per Prop 4-5: Your true self is your rational faculty/prohairesis alone; externals (including other people) are not part of your essential identity
  • Correspondence Reality: You are complete without this person; they were a preferred indifferent, not a constituent of your being
  • VERDICT: Confusing preferred companionship with existential necessity

STEP 4: PATHOS DIAGNOSTIC (Prop 23-31)

The emotional state described is textbook Pathos:

Per Proposition 23-25:

  • These feelings (despair, inability to function, existential dependency) arise from believing an external (the other person's presence) is a Good
  • This is the false judgment: "Their presence = my Good; their absence = my Evil"
  • When they leave, the person experiences this as loss of Good, producing intense grief/despair

The specific Pathos: Lupē (distress/grief)

Diagnostic chain:

  1. False belief: "I need this person to flourish"
  2. Person leaves (external event)
  3. Assent to: "I have lost something Good"
  4. Result: Overwhelming distress, sense of inability to function
  5. Secondary false belief: "My virtue (capacity to give/live) depends on their presence"

Per Proposition 30:
This person will experience pathological emotional states (grief, despair, dysfunction) because they hold false value beliefs about externals.

The vulnerability structure revealed:

  • Current state: Person is gone → "I can't live"
  • Inevitable conclusion: As long as eudaimonia depends on externals, you will never be free

This isn't love. This is the opposite of love:

  • Love (Eunoia): Wishing someone virtue, acting well toward them, preferring their company (indifferent)
  • This (Pathos): Needing someone's presence for your own flourishing, experiencing their absence as existential threat

Per Sterling's egoism/altruism framework:
The song claims to be about loving the other person, but it's actually about needing them for your own emotional stability. It's disguised egoism presenting as devotion.

STEP 5: ASSENT PROMPT

Do you see the correspondence failure?

The song treats another person's presence as:

  • Necessary for living/flourishing
  • Constitutive of your capacity to give/act
  • Essential to your very existence

Per Props 1-5, 19-20:

  • Only virtue is necessary for eudaimonia
  • Other people are externals/indifferents
  • Your prohairetic capacity is completely independent of their presence

What happens when you maintain this false belief structure?

You become:

  • Enslaved to their presence
  • Vulnerable to their departure
  • Incapable of eudaimonia in their absence
  • Manipulative (using your suffering as emotional leverage: "you should know what you've done to me")

That's not love. That's chains.

STEP 6: RESERVE-CLAUSE REFACTORING (Prop 35c)

THE SONG'S AIM (Wrong):
"I must have this person back because I cannot live/flourish/function without them"
(Treats external person as Good; guarantees suffering; enslaves you to their choices)

CORRECTED AIM WITH RESERVATION:

"I preferred this person's company and experienced it as a pleasant external. They have left. I will:

  • Continue to act virtuously (the only Good)
  • Maintain my capacity to give, love, and act (prohairetic autonomy)
  • Wish them well in their choices (eunoia/goodwill)
  • Recognize their presence was a preferred indifferent, not a necessity

Reservation made regarding:

  • Whether they return
  • Whether I ever see them again
  • Whether they think of me
  • Whether our relationship resumes
  • Whether I experience their company again

My eudaimonia is unchanged by their presence or absence. Their departure removed a preferred indifferent (like losing health or wealth), not a Good.

I can live. I can give. I am complete. I am free."


SYSTEM OUTPUT: THE SONG DESCRIBES PERFECT SLAVERY

The deepest irony:

The song is culturally celebrated as "profound love" when it actually describes pathological dependency - the exact opposite of genuine concern for another.

Per Sterling's system:

False "love" (Pathos):

  • "I can't live without you" (you control my flourishing)
  • "I can't give anymore" (you control my virtue)
  • "You should know what you've done" (emotional manipulation)

True love (Eunoia):

  • "I wish you virtue and flourishing"
  • "I prefer your company but don't need it"
  • "My capacity for virtue is unchanged by your choices"
  • "I'm free; you're free"

The song's message to the departed:

"Look what you've done to me - I'm destroyed."

This is manipulation disguised as devotion. It's using your own suffering as a weapon to make the other person feel guilty.

A Stoic sage saying goodbye:

"I valued our time together. You've chosen to leave. I respect your choice. My flourishing continues. I wish you well."

That's freedom. That's love. That's eudaimonia.


FINAL VERDICT:

This song is Plato's cave set to music.

The prisoner says: "Without this shadow, I cannot exist."

Sterling says: "Turn around. You're complete without it. You always were."

STATUS: CORRESPONDENCE FAILURE COMPLETE. RADICAL REFACTORING REQUIRED.

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