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Friday, August 15, 2025

Sterling's 5-Step System as Correct Impression Use: Three Demonstrations


 # Sterling's 5-Step System as Correct Impression Use: Three Demonstrations


## **The Framework:**


**Step 1 (Foundation)**: Impressions with external value content are always false


**Step 2 (Control Test)**: Before assenting, check if impression concerns controllables


**Step 3 (Precision)**: Focus impressions on beliefs, judgments, choices only  


**Step 4 (Emotion Connection)**: Emotional impressions trace to value judgments


**Step 5 (Real-Time Correction)**: CATCH false value impressions, RECOGNIZE their falseness, REPLACE with virtue focus


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## **DEMONSTRATION 1: Job Loss Crisis**


### **The Impression Stream:**

*"I just got fired. This is terrible. My career is ruined. I'm a failure. How will I pay bills? What will people think?"*


### **Step 1 (Foundation): Impressions with external value content are always false**

**Identify false value assignments:**

- *"This is terrible"* = External value judgment (job loss = bad)

- *"I'm a failure"* = External value judgment (employment status = personal worth)

- *"Career is ruined"* = External value judgment (career outcomes = life quality)


**Recognition**: All these impressions contain false external value content.


### **Step 2 (Control Test): Before assenting, check if impression concerns controllables**

**Apply control analysis:**

- Being fired → External/uncontrollable

- Career trajectory → External/uncontrollable  

- Others' opinions → External/uncontrollable

- Bill payment outcomes → External/uncontrollable

- **My response to this situation** → Internal/controllable


**Refuse assent** to impressions about uncontrollables.


### **Step 3 (Precision): Focus impressions on beliefs, judgments, choices only**

**Redirect attention to actual controllables:**

- *"What do I believe about this situation?"*

- *"How am I judging what happened?"*

- *"What choices do I have for response?"*


**Precise focus**: My beliefs about unemployment, my judgments about what this means, my choices for next steps.


### **Step 4 (Emotion Connection): Emotional impressions trace to value judgments**

**Trace emotions to their judgmental source:**

- Devastation comes from judging job loss as genuinely harmful

- Shame comes from judging employment status as determining worth

- Anxiety comes from judging financial uncertainty as threatening wellbeing


**Recognition**: Emotions aren't from being fired—they're from false value judgments about being fired.


### **Step 5 (Real-Time Correction): CATCH-RECOGNIZE-REPLACE**

**CATCH**: *"I'm treating this job loss as if it affects my actual wellbeing"*

**RECOGNIZE**: *"Job loss is external and therefore indifferent"*  

**REPLACE**: *"This is an opportunity to practice courage, wisdom, and dignity. How can I respond with excellence?"*


**Result**: Calm, virtuous response to external circumstance.


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## **DEMONSTRATION 2: Relationship Conflict**


### **The Impression Stream:**

*"She's being so unfair to me. She doesn't appreciate what I do. This relationship is falling apart. I need her to understand my side. If she leaves me, I'll be devastated."*


### **Step 1 (Foundation): Impressions with external value content are always false**

**Identify false value assignments:**

- *"She's being unfair"* = External value judgment (her behavior = bad for me)

- *"She doesn't appreciate me"* = External value judgment (her appreciation = good for me)

- *"This relationship falling apart"* = External value judgment (relationship status = my wellbeing)


**Recognition**: All contain false external value content.


### **Step 2 (Control Test): Before assenting, check if impression concerns controllables**

**Apply control analysis:**

- Her behavior → External/uncontrollable

- Her feelings toward me → External/uncontrollable

- Relationship outcome → External/uncontrollable

- Whether she leaves → External/uncontrollable

- **How I treat her** → Internal/controllable

- **My character in this conflict** → Internal/controllable


**Refuse assent** to impressions about her controllables.


### **Step 3 (Precision): Focus impressions on beliefs, judgments, choices only**

**Redirect to controllables:**

- *"What do I believe about how partners should treat each other?"*

- *"How am I judging this conflict situation?"*

- *"What choices do I have for responding with virtue?"*


**Precise focus**: My beliefs about relationships, my judgments about conflict, my choices for virtuous response.


### **Step 4 (Emotion Connection): Emotional impressions trace to value judgments**

**Trace emotions to judgmental source:**

- Anger comes from judging her behavior as bad for me

- Hurt comes from judging her lack of appreciation as harmful

- Fear comes from judging relationship loss as threatening my wellbeing


**Recognition**: Emotions stem from treating relationship externals as affecting my genuine good.


### **Step 5 (Real-Time Correction): CATCH-RECOGNIZE-REPLACE**

**CATCH**: *"I'm making my wellbeing dependent on her responses to me"*

**RECOGNIZE**: *"Her behavior and feelings are external and indifferent"*

**REPLACE**: *"How can I treat her with justice, kindness, and honesty regardless of her response? What would virtue look like here?"*


**Result**: Loving response without attachment to reciprocation.


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## **DEMONSTRATION 3: Health Diagnosis**


### **The Impression Stream:**

*"The doctor says I might have cancer. This could kill me. I'm too young for this. My family needs me. What if the treatment doesn't work? My life is falling apart."*


### **Step 1 (Foundation): Impressions with external value content are always false**

**Identify false value assignments:**

- *"This could kill me"* = External value judgment (death = evil)

- *"I'm too young"* = External value judgment (timing = matters for wellbeing)

- *"My family needs me"* = External value judgment (my physical presence = their good)

- *"My life is falling apart"* = External value judgment (health outcomes = life quality)


**Recognition**: All treat health/death as affecting genuine wellbeing.


### **Step 2 (Control Test): Before assenting, check if impression concerns controllables**

**Apply control analysis:**

- Having cancer → External/uncontrollable

- Treatment outcomes → External/uncontrollable

- Length of life → External/uncontrollable

- Family's future wellbeing → External/uncontrollable

- **My response to diagnosis** → Internal/controllable

- **How I handle treatment** → Internal/controllable


**Refuse assent** to impressions about medical uncontrollables.


### **Step 3 (Precision): Focus impressions on beliefs, judgments, choices only**

**Redirect to controllables:**

- *"What do I believe about sickness and health?"*

- *"How am I judging what this diagnosis means?"*

- *"What choices do I have for responding wisely?"*


**Precise focus**: My beliefs about mortality, my judgments about illness, my choices for character response.


### **Step 4 (Emotion Connection): Emotional impressions trace to value judgments**

**Trace emotions to judgmental source:**

- Terror comes from judging death as genuinely evil

- Despair comes from judging illness as ruining life quality

- Anxiety comes from judging treatment uncertainty as threatening wellbeing


**Recognition**: Fear isn't from having cancer—it's from false judgments about what cancer means for genuine wellbeing.


### **Step 5 (Real-Time Correction): CATCH-RECOGNIZE-REPLACE**

**CATCH**: *"I'm treating this health situation as if it can affect my actual good"*

**RECOGNIZE**: *"Health and sickness are external and therefore indifferent"*

**REPLACE**: *"This is an opportunity to practice courage and wisdom. How can I face this with dignity? What virtue can I express through this experience?"*


**Result**: Peaceful acceptance with appropriate medical action, demonstrating courage regardless of outcomes.


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## **The Pattern Across All Three Demonstrations**


### **What Makes This "Correct Use of Impressions":**


1. **Systematic Value Analysis**: Each step identifies and corrects false external value assignments

2. **Precise Control Focus**: Attention redirects from externals to actual controllables

3. **Emotional Tracing**: Feelings are traced to their judgmental sources rather than external triggers

4. **Virtue Orientation**: Every situation becomes opportunity for character excellence

5. **Real-Time Application**: The process works moment-to-moment as impressions arise


### **The Integration Achievement:**


**Epictetus' insight**: Handle impressions correctly through proper assent/dissent

**Sterling's system**: Provides the exact framework for what "correct" means and how to apply it systematically


**Result**: Every impression becomes a precise opportunity to practice virtue through accurate value assessment and controlled response—making Sterling's 5-step system the operational method for Epictetus' foundational practice.


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## **Quick Reference Guide**


### **For Any Disturbing Impression:**

1. **Step 1**: Does this contain external value content? (Usually yes)

2. **Step 2**: Is this about something I control? (Usually no)

3. **Step 3**: What beliefs, judgments, choices do I actually control here?

4. **Step 4**: What false value judgment is creating my emotional reaction?

5. **Step 5**: CATCH the false judgment, RECOGNIZE it's false, REPLACE with virtue focus


### **The Test of Success:**

You're using impressions correctly when external events become neutral contexts for virtue practice rather than sources of emotional disturbance.


Virtue Is the Pursuit of Appropriate Objects of Aim

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