Sterling's Stoic Core Process

🧠 STERLING'S STOIC CORE PROCESS 🧠

According to philosopher Grant Sterling, ALL emotions, actions, and character development flow through ONE universal mechanism:

📥 **IMPRESSION ARRIVES**

↓

🔍 **VALUE RECOGNITION** 

(Does this impression claim something is good/bad?)

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⚡ **ASSENT CHOICE** ← YOU ARE HERE

(Accept it? Reject it? Reformulate it?)

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😊😢 **EMOTIONAL/BEHAVIORAL RESULT**

Sterling's radical claim: "Everything critical to leading the best possible life is contained in that one act of assent."

The key insight? Most of us automatically assent to false value impressions without realizing we have a choice.

**Example:**

❌ Impression: "My boss criticized me - that's terrible!"

❌ Auto-assent: Accept this as true

❌ Result: Anger, stress, poor decisions

✅ Impression: "My boss criticized me - that's terrible!"

✅ Conscious evaluation: "Is criticism from others genuinely bad for me?"

✅ Reformulated truth: "Criticism is external to my happiness"

✅ Result: Equanimity, rational response

Sterling argues this ONE skill - conscious assent control - can guarantee complete happiness and perfect character.

Bold claim? Absolutely. But what if he's right?

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Here are several alternative approaches for the Facebook post:

**Simplified Version (less academic)**:

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Ever wonder why the same situation affects people differently? 

Stoic philosopher Grant Sterling says it's all about ONE moment of choice:

When something happens → You form an impression → You choose to believe it (or not)

That's it. That split second determines your emotions, actions, and character.

Most people automatically believe "This is good/bad for me" without question.

Sterling's method: Pause and ask "Is this really good or bad, or just something that happened?"

Simple? Yes. Easy? No. Life-changing? He claims absolutely.

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**Visual Flow Version**:

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The Sterling Process:

EVENT HAPPENS

    ↓

IMPRESSION FORMS ("This is bad!")

    ↓

CHOICE POINT ← Most people skip this

    ↓

BELIEVE IT → Suffer

OR

QUESTION IT → Freedom

"All our emotions, all our actions are tied to assenting to impressions" - Grant Sterling

The power is in that choice point most of us never notice.

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**Question Hook Version**:

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What if ONE skill could prevent all unnecessary suffering?

Grant Sterling's radical claim: Every negative emotion comes from believing false impressions about what's "good" or "bad" for you.

His solution: Learn to pause before believing your first reaction to events.

The process:

• Something happens

• Your mind labels it good/bad

• PAUSE (most people skip this)

• Ask: "Is this external event actually good or bad for ME?"

• Choose your response consciously

Sterling says mastering this ONE choice can guarantee happiness.

Bold claim or breakthrough insight?

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Each version emphasizes the **choice point** that most people miss while avoiding overly technical philosophical language that might not engage a Facebook audience.